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East Sac Mom to Mom

January 29, 2010

East Sac Mom was created for several reasons: to give moms in East Sacramento a resource for cheap and free local events and activities, to share reviews and event wrap ups and to network with other moms. We appreciate every comment and email and please know that all of them are read and we put a lot of thought into our responses. Often we seek the advice of other readers and this is one of those times.

Meet East Sac Mom Terra, who writes:

I have stayed home with my son since he was born. He starts school next year at Caleb Greenwood and I am wanting to know what other moms in my position do? Start working? If so how do you deal with kindergarten being half days? Have [other moms] thought about offering a cheap program to help other local school moms with this problem? [Such as] mini daycare, or trading babysitting time? What to do?

Terra, let us first say that we know many moms who have struggled with this same dilemma. You have spent the last several years of your life devoted to the life of another– day in and day out. Once that little person enters school age it is a life change for the both of you. I would suggest to begin thinking about what you enjoy doing. Have you had a career in the past? Is there a job or a skill you have always wanted to learn? Being that kindergarten is only part-time it can lend itself to opening up your day to take a class, take on a part time job or even volunteer. The most important thing is that you feel fulfilled. A child leaving for school can be difficult, especially for first-time moms because there may be an “emptiness” where there once was activity, structure and (lets face it) noise. Remember that every mom is different and what works for one family will not work for another. With that said, I’d like to open it up to other readers to comment with their thoughts and suggestions.

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